One of my business partners invited me to have a lunch at the top floor of John Hancock building in Chicago today. He, his wife and me sit at the window table. The Michigan Lake and the Chicago city bird view are so wonderful. We started to have some food. Suddenly, I noticed my business partner had a makeup on his eyes. We have met a couple times. But, I never noticed such thing. I thought it might be another fun thing done by his wife.  “Why you have a makeup on your eyes?” I said with a laugh. His smile disappeared and his wife’s face was freezing. The atmosphere was so weird suddenly. After a while, he opened his month slowly “You are a open minded man. I tell you the truth. I’m a transsexual”. Now, it’s my turn. My laugh was disappeared and my face was freezing. I just felt there was a small flying in my stomach.

I have seen some transsexuals in the TV and movie. But, I have never been so close to someone, who is transsexual. He has a wife. What kind of relationship is this? What heck a man without "P"?!

He started to talk about his life. He was a man. He transferred into a woman for 2 years. Then, he transferred back to a man again. We talked and talked. Without notice, the small flying in my stomach was gone. I started to understand his struggle life. 

This is a wonderful world. It is a colorful world. Sometimes, it is a weird world.